The Secure Parent Conflict Code: 6 Principles for Staying Connected When Everything Feels Tense

Conflict with our kids is tender, loaded, and often triggering. These six principles help you move from power struggles to connection — even when everyone’s crusty and musty.

We can’t avoid conflict with our kids — and we actually shouldn’t. The goal isn’t zero conflict; it’s learning how to move through conflict in a way that leads back to connection instead of disconnection. 

 

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